Monday, 30 November 2009

Family First pimp marriage

Seems that least progressive of organisations, Family First, has decided to turn its great swivelly burning eye away from the pro-smacking lobby and towards the issue of marriage. Their summer advertising campaign is going to feature the following billboard:

Apologies if it's not that large, but never fear, they are raising funds to put ginormous versions of it up all over the show (for surprisingly cheap sums of money too, hmmmm, might be something in that for a journo...)

Now coming from Family First I'm guessing that this campaign is aimed at coming up with a positive message beneath which to sell the following rather negative bits and bobs:
  • No sex before marriage
  • No non-hetero marriage
  • No non-marriage relationships with kids
  • No non-marriage relationships with state-recognition (and that's not just about the Civil Unions Act, which turns 5 shortly, but also about things like state housing, welfare provision, who can be your next of kin, etc)
  • No divorce
And they reckon the PC liberal set are the Fun Police!

Interesting interview with Gaylene Preston

On The Arts on Sunday (RNZ National) yesterday, which you can hear by clicking here.

Preston talks a lot about her experience as a female filmmaker in New Zealand and overseas, and the changes that have happened for women in this field of work.

"0% won't pay the rent" - School Support Staff takes to Queen St

After the glorious wonderfulness of the Lift the Wage Freeze rally on Friday, I had the good fortune to be able to make the Fair Deal march and rally on Saturday too. Wriggly came along and largely had a good time, especially when I unleashed him on the playground at Myers Park at the end!
The issue? School Support Staff - 13000 union members nationwide working in non-teaching roles in our state schools - have been in the process of trying to bargain a new collective employment agreement since late 2008. The only pay offer the Government is making is a 0% pay increase. As the cost of living, and working, goes up this is basically a pay cut for some of the lowest paid workers in Aotearoa. Many start on $12.94 an hour, only 44c above the minimum wage, and almost all of them work part time and are only paid for working 40 weeks of the year (during school terms). Their pay issues are significant and long-standing. Labour had committed to a pay jolt for them prior to the last election, but that went out the window on November 8th 2008.Carol Beaumont was there and spoke at the rally, as were other Labour and Green MPs, plus a significant posse of other unions and organisations in support, such as the SFWU, the PPTA and the Working Women's Resource Centre.

And now, because I know many readers are going to be wondering about this, what's with all the pink? Pink is the colour of the Support Staff in Schools collective employment agreement (which we fondly call the SSCA at work*, we are all about the acronyms). It's been pink for a few years now, before that it was yellow. I have no idea what was behind the colour change, but it's not a gender thing, I think. There is an obvious gender dynamic at play in why these workers, mainly but not exclusively women, are so poorly paid. But the pink thing is genuinely coincidental to that.

Certainly it had a lot of impact. If you want to get a feel for that, and the general carnival atmosphere, as well as a good look at the actual people who put aside their Saturday to share their support, then I strongly recommend you check out this short video, which threads together the story of the march and rally through connecting stills taken over the whole time period - from turning up at QE2 Square with the placards, up Queen St, to the kai at Myers Park. It is one of the best pieces covering a march that I have ever seen.


* Yes I work for the union that organised this march. I generally try not to write about work stuff on here, which is the main reason I'm not going to be writing any blog posts about Early Childhood Education anytime soon (although often I am sorely tempted!). I don't work in the support staff area, and I took these pics primarily for the blog and for my own record. I've not been asked to write about this by my work, and Saturday was a day off for me. Hopefully that's enough of a disclaimer for you to understand that this is a post in my personal capacity.

Sunday, 29 November 2009

Ten years (and two days) ago today

Thanks to CC in comments for bringing this to my attention.

Cast your mind back, if you will, to November 27th 1999. I remember the date well because it was on our minds for months beforehand - mostly because of the General Election but also because it would be my friend Jazman's 21st birthday and she was going to be really pissed at Jenny Shipley, then PM, if she called the election for that date. She'd had to share her natal anniversary with general elections too many times, and having lots of friends and families interested in politics she really didn't want to be overshadowed on her 21st too. I recall vividly shuttling between her 21st in Tamaki and the Alliance party in Grey Lynn; from those who were mostly depressed about the inevitability of the end of nearly a decade of Tory power to those elated at the prospect of being part of the Government for the first time ever, and a centre-left Government at that.

But November the 27th was much more significant for the firsts that it enabled:
No doubt there are others y'all will mention in comments which I've forgotten :-)

In some ways it seems hard now to imagine that these firsts were only a decade ago. Surely we've been ok with women in charge for years and years and years? Unfortunately some people are still not ok about it**, but I would hope that any future contenders for the prime ministerial role who happen to be female would not face all the barriers that Clark, and Shipley, did.

By 2019 what will we hope our Parliament looks like? It still fails the diversity test by many measures, although it is better than pre-MMP days. What firsts would you like to see occur between now and then?


* I don't want to get all hung up on Clark being the first elected female prime minister, and all the stuff that goes on around Shipley being the actual first first. Shipley's role was significant, and I don't deny that. However the reality for the NZ public voting on 27th November 1999 was that they knew the outcome would be a female PM. They hadn't known that was likely when they voted three years earlier.
** Anjum I wanted to put in here a link to the story you told once about the woman who came up to you at a stall somewhere saying it was unnatural to have a female PM, but I can't find it sorry!

Friday, 27 November 2009

This just in - Richard Worth won't be charged

Both Stuff and the Herald are running a breaking news banner saying no charges will be laid against Worth after the serious allegations against him earlier in the year. No more info at this time.

UPDATE: Here's the Herald article, up just now.

It will be interesting to see if John Key now reveals why he lost confidence in Worth as a Minister, seeing as how he earlier said he wouldn't tell us because he didn't want to prejudice the police investigation.

Low pay? No way!

Further to my post this morning, here are two pics I took on the rally in the last hour or so:

The two marches meet, one coming from Auckland Hospital coming down Queen St, and the other up from Britomart with workers from all over the rest of Auckland. I just cannot explain in words how amazingly powerful that was, to have them meet in the middle of Queen St. I took a short video clip on my camera, but it really doesn't get across the sense of solidarity for both groups of coming together like that.

These three young women had come all the way from Pukekohe or Papakura (sorry dear readers, I always get those two confused) into the city. The middle one reads "try supporting a family on my wage".

It's been a while since I went to a union rally and it was fantastic, big massive ups to the organisers. After the two marches met we all packed into the Methodist Mission, across from the Town Hall, and there was singing, a bit of dancing (props to the lovely Pasifika woman who started that and got Mr Goff up looking like a bit of a birk), and a whole lot of workers and unionists sharing the true stories of the low paid in Aotearoa New Zealand.

Linda, a school support staff worker shared that she and the colleague standing next to her earned a combined income less than Bill English's housing allowance. She said "we all want to feel valued for the work we do... we want the Government to start valuing that work too." Jit, a long time employee of IDEA services, was amongst many at the rally who had been offered zero percent increases by their employers, and she felt it was "an insult" to those already on a low wage. Brendon, a union organiser working with employees at Abano, told us how the members he works with were asking for only 2%, but the company had said no to even that, despite a $9M profit in the last year, made off the work of those people. These workers provide the 24/7 care that those who have suffered serious brain injuries need, and Abano recently won Company of the Year in recognition of that work.

There were politicians too - both Green and Labour MPs and it was heartening to hear representatives from both parties (Phil Goff and Darien Fenton for Labour, and Keith Locke for the Greens) speak of the cooperative work they are doing in Parliament to fight this Government's attacks on low income people. Turns out Phil Goff's wife Mary is a school support staff worker, who knew?!

Barbara Wyeth, president of the Service and Food Workers' Union and a cook at North Shore Hospital, spoke very well on the impact the wage freeze is having on workers. I thought she summed up it with the statement "it's gotta stop; it's not fair."

And the rally closed with unanimous passing of this resolution:

That we call on the National Government to end the wage freeze on low paid state funded workers.

Bring on the school support staff march tomorrow! (Meet QEII Square from 11.30am)

Sadly it's not summer for everyone

Today there will be rallies all around Aotearoa New Zealand to protest the pay freeze many workers, particularly those on low pay, are currently facing.

They're being organised by the CTU and a group of unions, including the one I'm a member of, the Service and Food Workers' Union, and I'll be at the rally in Auckland, at the Methodist Church on Queen St (opposite the Town Hall) at 12.30pm.

This collective action coincides with a strike by public hospital workers across the 21 DHBs today and similar action by IHC community workers. These two groups provide startling examples of the inequity of the Government's public sector pay freeze for those on low wages. The orderlies, food service workers, security staff and cleaners of the DHBs have been offered no wage increase, despite a 3.1% increase in funding from the Government, because, as John Ryall puts it "We have been told by the DHBs that the Government has instructed them that there will be no increase in any public hospital agreement wage rate this year without specific agreement of the Minister of Health."

The IHC workers are also facing a zero percent pay offer, and their organisation too is primarily funded by the Government to provide support to the thousands of New Zealanders with intellectual disabilities. Cabinet has dictated this wage freeze, and employers are using it as much as possible, particularly those who are reliant on public funds for their operations, even when they are not directly part of the public service.

And tomorrow the collective goodness continues, as school support staff ask Aucklanders to Think Pink and join their march against their inadequate pay offer (guess what it is, go on, it's not hard, a not so nice round number...). There are also local, school-based activities happening all over NZ today to support this cause - if you see someone in pink chances are they are keen to see a fair deal for school support staff, and an end to the wage freeze for low income workers.

Let's be frank here - one of the reasons that these groups of workers are so low paid, and getting 0% pay offers, is because these are largely areas of traditional "women's work", and most of these workers are women. Yet the mahi they do is actually invaluable to our society; they are the invisible army that keep the wheels from falling off our health and education systems. Without orderlies how would patients get to theatre, without school secretaries how would children be enrolled, without community service workers who would support those with intellectual disabilities to live with dignity (certainly not Paul Henry).

So if you're keen for a bit of rally or march action today, or tomorrow if you're in Tamaki Makaurau, then come along and join in!

Provocation defence repealed - only Act vote against

Last night Parliament voted to repeal the defence (to murder) of provocation:
The defence of provocation, which can be used to reduce murder to manslaughter, has been abolished.

Parliament passed the repeal bill last night by 116 votes to five, with only the Act Party opposing it.

Justice Minister Simon Power introduced the Crimes (Provocation Repeal) Amendment Bill in August after the Law Commission had twice recommended abolition.

He said at the time the Government considered the law was flawed.

"It effectively provides a defence for lashing out in anger, not just any anger but violent, homicidal rage," Mr Power said.

"It rewards lack of self-control by enabling an intentional killing to be categorised as something other than murder."

...Labour, the Greens and the Maori Party supported the repeal bill and there were cries of "shame" when Act MP David Garrett said his party opposed it.
Click through for the whole article.

Provocation can still be considered as a factor during sentencing.

It's nice to think that something good has come from Sophie Elliot's death. However it would have been even nicer if repeal had happened after the repeated use of the homosexual panic brand of the provocation defence. It shouldn't have taken the brutal murder of a straight, Pakeha woman from a middle class background, and the incredibly offensive defence tactics adopted by Clayton Weatherston, to make people realise this change was necessary.

Idiot/Savant will I'm sure be a happier blogger this morning.

Thursday, 26 November 2009

What's wrong with TVNZ?

Tonight's news on TVNZ featured this morning's Breakfast programme, on whcih four former newsreaders appeared: Dougal Stevenson, Lindsay Perigo, David Beatson and - Jennie Goodwin. There was an interview with the three chaps, but Goodwin didn't appear, except for a tiny clip at the end which didn't involve any actual interview.

I was really annoyed by this, because of the four, Goodwin has the best claim to significance. When she started reading the news in 1975, she was the first woman in the Commonwealth to front the national news bulletin on prime time television. Angela D'Audney (who was in my class at intermediate) was the first female TV newsreader, but appeared at first only on regional TV.

Of course TVNZ knew about this historic first, and had been featuring it in promo articles. So why didn't it tell the reporters doing the item? Or maybe it did, but they just didn't bother to do anything with it because, in the immortal words of a former head of programming, "women aren't interesting"?

Why we won't be naming the entertainer with a penchant for sexual assault

Bomber asked in a thread about something else entirely if we would be breaching the name suppression order and naming the entertainer.

In a word: Nope.

We've discussed it by email and determined that it just isn't worth it. The legal realities of what might happen are a little uncertain, to my mind, as this site is hosted via Blogspot and thus I think it is outside NZ legal jurisdiction. But I don't want to test that. Especially as three of us, myself included, post under our real names, and we have plenty of other more worthwhile things to be doing with our time than dealing with any difficulties that could arise for us personally if we did name him.

Frankly I agree with an Anon, who said:
Please don't! If anybody wants to find out who he is they can just google it. You'll get his name in 2 seconds flat. I get that people are pissed about him getting name suppression - I am too - but it's not worth getting this site shut down.
See it is worth keeping Anon comments! (Especially from someone who says nice things about us too :-) )

If Bomber, or any other blogger, chooses to name the entertainer on their site that's their perogative. It would certainly be interesting to see what would happen next!

Let Nick Smith know the ACC cuts are Not Ok

From the End Rape Culture Now Collective, who are also organising an Auckland Take Back the Night march on Friday:
Nick Smith, the minister of ACC will be holding a public meeting in Auckland on the 30th of November. The End Rape Culture Now Collective is planning on hold a public protest outside his meeting. Bring placards, banners and noise makers.

Where: Royal Akarana Yacht Club, 10 Tamaki Dr, Okahu Bay, Auckland
When: 30th November, 7.30pm - 9.30pm
There's more at the Facebook event page here, including info on how to get there, arranging lifts, etc.

Oh no he di'int - Paul Henry does it yet again

Yes the man who reckoned mentioning a woman's facial hair was sufficient rebuttal to her points about compensation for those affected by nuclear testing, thinks psychic Deb Webber routinely solves crimes, and seems unable to get past a woman's appearance even when discussing her dancing prowess, has done it again.

But now he's going International with his judgeyness - his new target? Susan Boyle.

Here's the message from IHC about Monday's outburst:
IHC needs your help to complain about an item on Breakfast TV on Monday 23 November. In the item Paul Henry refers to Susan Boyle (the singer from Britain’s Got Talent) as ‘retarded’. He laughs and says she was starved of oxygen at birth and has an intellectual disability. He then say “If you look at her carefully you can make it out”.

To view the excerpt go to

http://tvnz.co.nz/breakfast-news/breakfast-monday-november-23-3172249/video?vid=3172487

If you want to complain could you please:

1. Email breakfast@tvnz.co.nz saying that Paul Henry’s comments about Susan Boyle and intellectual disability were inappropriate and discriminatory.

2. Go to the Human Rights Commission online complaints form http://www.hrc.co.nz/home/hrc/enquiriescomplaints/onlinecomplaintsform.php and fill it out. Say that TVNZ is using discriminatory language about people with intellectual disabilities, making negative comments about their appearance and treating intellectual disability with derision and disrespect.

Please pass this email on to others so they can complain also. This is an opportunity to make it clear to Paul Henry and TVNZ that discrimination against people with intellectual disability is not acceptable, and that there are many people who are offended by the comments on Breakfast TV.
Hard to believe that there has been talk about Henry getting his own show. What is TVNZ thinking??

Yay for Azlemed and welcome to the world baby Natalya

Azlemed did a cool thing yesterday, she had a baby!

All safe and well and home again :-)

Wednesday, 25 November 2009

Concern more children will be raised in poverty

From Stuff today:
One in five Kiwi children are now being raised in households reliant on benefits, sparking fears that children are "starving in the age of the recession".

The number of children living with beneficiaries is up 15,000 in the past year to 226,000 in April 2009.

The rise has concerned doctors, child welfare groups and academics, who say living with beneficiaries increases the risk of leaving school early and health effects including hospital admissions and deaths.

They have set up an annual checklist to monitor the situation. The Social Health Monitor, to be launched at the Paediatric Society annual conference in Hamilton today, will track the effects of the economic downturn on child health and poverty.

It shows the number of children reliant on a benefit recipient has fallen since 2000 but is likely to rise in the near future and says the benefit set-up will be unable to protect many children from severe or significant hardship – including more hospital admissions and deaths.

It also points to long-term effects such as leaving school without qualifications.
Click through for the rest.

Looks like the recession may be over at the top, but it's a long way from finished for everyone else :-(

New laydeez in blogland

Letters from Wetville by Sandra
Halfway down the stairs by Cath
The Harridan

(by new I mean new to me, btw)

His and hers privacy policies?

A fascinating contrast on the same page of yesterday's Dom-Post. A flight attendant breath-tested driving to work in the morning is still over the limit after, she says, drinking before 10 pm the night before. She is shocked, phones in and doesn't go to work. But the police contact her employer, who is then able to get all the information, and she ends up losing her job.

In the next column, the entertainer discharged without conviction after admitting that he shoved a sixteen-year-old girl's face into his genitals keeps his name suppression, although she and her mother have identified themselves and want him named to protect other women. The police did not object to the suppression. Both "protection" and "privacy", it seems, depend to a remarkable extent on who you are and how what you've done is perceived by those in authority.

When a star is born

I know people say that birth is a wonderful thing, full of joy. The day your children are born will be amongst the best times of your life, etc. And yes, I think that is usually true, on the surface.

Recently I've had a few friends have babies, in fact one had her water's break last night and there may well be a new life by now. And of course Wriggly came into the world a little under 2 years ago and that was by and large A Good Day.

But there is a bittersweet tinge for me, and it's something I know I generally keep hidden. I wanted to write about it because I wonder if there are others out there too who can see the shadow as well as the light when a star is born.

When Wriggly actually arrived I was pretty doped (and I've already written all about that) so I wasn't thinking all that much at the time. Over the following days though there were a few tears that trickled through not because of the wonder of watching him, the sense of achievement for myself, or the sheer loveliness of seeing my loved ones loving my son.

I'm not talking about post natal depression here, or baby blues, either, because I often feel an inkling of this when other women have babies too.

For want of a better way to explain it, it's more about opportunities lost; the thoughts of miscarriages and children who have died amongst the families of many women who've shared that with me, the beloved people I would have wanted to meet my son who never did, or the ones who will now never meet any future children I might have. It's a sad twisty little knife that flicks inside me, thinking of what might have been had the chromosomes been better matched, the grandparents born ten years later, the cancer curable.

So if I have another child I will weep with delight at its arrival. But maybe one in a hundred of those tears will be for something else too; for the shadows the new light has cast.

Tuesday, 24 November 2009

Pretty ugly

This is a picture of Joss Stone:


This is a picture of Joss Stone playing Anne of Cleves:


This is a painting of Anne of Cleves:

It's pretty generally accepted that Anne of Cleves was not a striking beauty, and that this was the main reason Henry VII was unwilling to consummate the marriage and thus sought an annulment pretty quick smart.

Female acting roles seem to almost exclusively be the domain of the beautiful. Couldn't we at least have the historical characters who were renowned for not being conventionally beautiful portrayed by women who aren't stunningly attractive?

Boss fails to understand nature of depression: quelle surprise

From the Herald today:
A Canadian woman on long-term sick leave says she lost her benefits because of photos on Facebook and she is fighting to get them reinstated.

Nathalie Blanchard has been on leave from her job at IBM in Bromont, Quebec, for the past year.

The Canadian Broadcasting Corporation reported yesterday that she was diagnosed with major depression and was receiving monthly sick-leave benefits from insurance giant Manulife.

But the payments dried up during the northern autumn and when Blanchard called Manulife, she says she was told Facebook proved she could work.

She said her insurance agent described several pictures she had posted on Facebook, including ones showing her having a good time at a bar show, at her birthday party and on a holiday in the sun.

Blanchard said Manulife told her it was evidence she was no longer depressed.
Click through for the rest.

Because everyone knows you can't really be sick if you have a break somewhere sunny!

Monday, 23 November 2009

social connectedness vs social justice

i was at an interesting talk on sunday by a manager of mental health services*. he talked about social connectedness and it's effect on well-being. he referred to the MSD's 2009 social report, which defines social connectedness [pdf] as "the relationship people have with others". it goes on to say:

Relationships give people support, happiness, contentment and a sense they belong and have a role to play in society. They also mean people have support networks in place they can call on for help during hard times...

Several studies have demonstrated links between social connectedness and the performance of the economy and positive outcomes for individual health and wellbeing.

Social connectedness is fostered when family relationships are positive, and when people have the skills and opportunities to make friends and to interact constructively with others. Good health, employment, and feeling safe and secure all increase people’s chances of developing positive relationships.

the speaker mentioned that well-being actually leads to good health, then went on to talk about aspects around social connectedness. one example he gave was of the roseto effect, which is basically the study of an isolated but close-knit community in america that had much better health stats than the average even though lifestyle factors such as employment, diet and exercise were pretty much the same as everyone else. the factors that explained this unusual health outcome were said to be communal rituals, social support and cohesion, shared values, a common aim, family meals, and a lack of uncertainty.

there was plenty more to the talk (including a mention of the roots of empathy thing), and it was really interesting. but the thing that struck me most is that, as an activist, the one thing you do is go against prevailing values and customs. because your views or your activities are designed to change the status quo, you often face hostility and lose that social connectedness. which, according to the above, will have negative consequences on your well-being and general health.

i did ask the speaker about this, and how to deal with it. i wasn't entirely satisfied with his answer, though it was pretty good. he said something along the lines of treating the people you want to change with respect, recognising that you yourself are not perfect just as they are not perfect. that i agree with, in the sense that i always think you kill more flies with honey ie i prefer to bring people along incrementally than to be confrontational and challenging. having an inherent respect for the people you're interacting with will always show in the way you behave and the words you choose, and is more likely to get them listening.

but. often the change that is required of people will mean that they are potentially less well-off, at least in the short term. in being an activist, you are actually challenging the power structures of society and seeking to change them. those who currently have the power aren't likely to give it up easily, no matter how polite and respectful you might be.

there are times when activism has to be direct and confrontational, when someone has to go out on a limb to stand up for their cause because progress just isn't being made. a relevant example for here is the suffragettes, many of whom suffered and were ostracised but without whom women in some countries would not have been able to vote.

it seems to me that social justice is more important than social connectedness. that there is no point in having personal wellbeing when there are people around you who are suffering and need help. when that help can only be effectively delivered through institutional and structural changes in society, then i think we have a moral duty to go out on a limb and challenge the shared values that allow marginalisation to exist. even at the cost of social-connectedness, although we can always hope that there will be other people who agree with us and can provide us with some positive connections.

*i haven't got permission to use his name, so the speaker will remain anonymous. would love to attribute though, as i was certainly impressed.

Some days it's hard to be a feminist

Especially when the front of your local daily newspaper screams at you

Battle of the Babes

first thing on a Monday morning.

So what is this warlike event between infants of which the Herald speaks?

Could it be some kind of baby wrestling? Or perhaps there are now two competing brands of sugar babes which go through the rigours of taste testing with an intrepid group of journalists all searching inexorably for the truth of which should be the victor?

Nope, it's the possibility of Nikki Kaye (National) and Jacinda Ardern (Labour) both contesting Auckland Central at the next election. You'll note however that the Babe-Battle language is not mentioned online, oh no, that's just for those who get their newspaper on actual newspaper.

I roll my eyes, yet again, in the Herald's general direction.

Sunday, 22 November 2009

asking permission to propose

i was surprised to hear, recently, of a man who went to visit his sweetheart's father to get permission to propose to her. this is a tradition i've never been comfortable with. to me, it smacks too much of ownership, of women as property. tying in with the notion of a father "giving away" his daughter in marriage. you can't, after all, give away what you can't own!

not only that, but if you're going to ask permission to seek a daughter's hand in marriage, why on earth would you exclude her mother? is the mother not important, or just that the father is presumed to speak on her behalf?

and finally, it decreases the agency of the woman to be proposed to. i don't know, it just seems that she becomes less than ie someone who is unable to fully speak for herself or to be trusted to make a reasonable decision. she isn't required to go to his parents to seek approval, so he is presumed to have full agency while she is not.

i found my reaction to this pretty interesting, given that i'm not at all opposed to arranged marriages. but in that case, both sets of parents (and initially their representatives) are talking to each other. and these days, the couple usually meet and approve of each other before the marriage can go ahead.*

in the western situation, i guess i'd feel much more comfortable if the proposal was made and accepted, and the couple went to both sets of parents to seek their blessings. it's good to have family on-side after all, and i do believe in strong family relationships. i just don't like the way that women are made invisible under customary practices.

*i know things haven't always been that way, and i don't in anyway approve of forced marriages.

Friday, 20 November 2009

Auckland Take Back the Night

Thanks to Kelsie for emailing me about this, I will try to make it and hope to see others there!
Auckland End Rape Culture NOW! Collective invites you to join us to
TAKE BACK THE NIGHT!
Friday 27th November 2009, Albert Park, 7.00 pm.

END THE SILENCE, END THE FEAR
We have lost our right to walk freely at night. For 364 days a year,
we limit our own freedom, silently. We live in fear. So, let us speak up,
and say why limit OUR freedom, when it's not us who commits the crime?

END RAPE CULTURE
We are told that if we go anywhere alone, that we are asking for trouble,
that it is our fault if we are assaulted. Rape Culture is "a conscious process
of intimidation by which all women are kept in a state of fear" (Susan Brownmiller).
So lets end this rape culture, lets work together to create a world safe for womyn.

TAKE BACK THE NIGHT
We should not be afraid to walk alone at night!
Together, we are strong, we can march and support each other!
Join us to celebrate our mutual support, have FUN, and take back the night together!

JOIN US!
Take Back the Night Gathering, Friday 27th November
7.00 pm Albert Park Rotunda,
Fun, speakers, music, social gathering.
March starts approx 8.00 pm, Albert Park to Myers Park.

Take Back the Night 2009 is a feminist march; all are welcome.

www.stopcuts.blogspot.com
www.endrapeculture.org.nz
www.youtube.com/endrapeculture
end.rape.culture at gmail.com

ms bennett pulls up the ladder even further

ok this really pisses me off:

“The [Community Max] scheme is designed to provide work experience and greater opportunities for young people on the unemployment and independent youth benefits but 16 to 24-year-olds on the Domestic Purposes Benefit are being excluded from taking part and working themselves off the benefit,” Carmel Sepuloni said.

“The policy barring young mothers from participating in the scheme is illogical and discriminatory. Young mothers on the DPB should be entitled to the same opportunities as other young people.

“I know of at least one case where an intelligent and eager-to-work young mother wasn’t able to fill a position for which she was the first choice, as it was subsidised by the Community Max programme."


i can't think of anything coherent to say, other than the fact that i'm glad carmel is taking this to the human rights commission. combine this with the cut in the training incentive allowance for those on the DPB, and it looks like this government is actually wanting increased dependence on the state for longer periods of time. i can't think of any other rationale for these policies.

Thursday, 19 November 2009

Work/life balance - It's not about the pets

I'm really happy for the staff at CWA New Media in Wellington. The Dom-Post says they get to take their pets to work on Thursdays. Fine - though I'm not sure I'd be thrilled to have a blue-tongued skink wandering around the office in search of cuddles...

But here comes the catch: "Their bosses say it's a way for modern workplaces to address work/life balance, by bringing people's favourite part of home into the office." Well, no, not exactly.

"Work/life balance" is a stupid phrase, but what it's supposed to mean is being able to fit together your paid work and all the other stuff you need to do without becoming totally stressed out. For most of the women I know, it's more about "paid work/unpaid work balance". What we call "full-time work" means the amount of paid work someone [being very gender-neutral here] can do when they have someone else at home to do all that other stuff. It wasn't ever meant to be done by the people who DO all that other stuff.

But now all these people, usually known as women, have moved en masse into paid work, and even into full-time jobs. What to do? Introduce work/life balance. We mustn't go too far, of course. Pets at work, maybe. Kids at work - definitely not.

But wait, there's more. In a new book of essays just out from Victoria University Press, Rethinking Women and Politics, Tania Domett looks at the reality of this great new idea. The news isn't good: those who make use of such policies are generally seen as not really committed to their work.

These policies, she says, are a "band-aid" remedy for what is fundamentally an issue of gender injustice. While they do "facilitate women's dual roles and allow them at least limited access to the labour market", they also mask and perpetuate existing gender inequalities. She quotes Philippa Hall of the [now dismantled] Pay and Employment Equity Unit: "Women have got to get more money and men have to get more time. Men have to work less [for pay] and women have to get paid more for things to change."

Sorry, but it's not about the pets.

Declaration of interest: I have an essay in Rethinking Women and Politics. It's on the gender gap in voting patterns.

In The News: Roots of Empathy celebrated in Wellington

Long time readers might remember that I've blogged about this amazing programme called Roots of Empathy before, and yesterday there was an article on Stuff about it:
Schoolboys have been going gaga over the unorthodox teachers of an "emotional literacy" trial, which supporters say is here to stay.

Under the Roots of Empathy programme, newborn babies – and their parents – take over the classroom once every three weeks, so pupils can watch their development.

The programme, which will run in some classrooms again next year, aims to teach pupils empathy, and to reduce aggression and bullying.

Volunteer mother Shevaugn Gallagher said it was not just pupils who were educated.

"The boys were most surprising. They were just really, really excited about it. Sometimes it was the boys who came up [to greet us] faster than the girls.

"It definitely opened [my] eyes."

All the pupils in the class, especially the boys, had wanted to hold her year-old son, Blake Kidd.

Ngati Toa Primary School pupil Myah Hohaia-Chapman, 11, said her class had fallen in love with Blake.

"It's kind of strange ... I've never really [seen] boys get excited about that."

She would miss Blake when she moved on to intermediate, she said.

"[Blake] has shown us all so much about [our] feelings and about how others may be feeling."
Click through for the rest.

If I have another child, and I'm in a position at that time to help out, I'd love to do Roots of Empathy as a parent. I first heard about it through my father who gave me a flyer on it when I was pregnant with Wriggly. As it turned out I wasn't in a very good place to do the programme when Wriggly was little, but it sounds incredibly worthwhile, not just for the school kids involved but also for the parents, babies and teachers.

name suppression

there's been a bit of talk about the law commissions report that came out a few days ago, making recommendations about suppression of names and evidence (this is the html version, as i couldn't get the pdf to work for me). other bloggers have covered the issues around suppression of information on the internet and ramifications if websites are blocked.

the bit that interests me is chapter 3 of the report, dealing with the suppression of names of the accused or convicted persons. i'm sure i heared hon simon power saying something along the lines that there would be tighter rules around suppression of names for celebrities, so that celebrities were treated like everyone else.

of course that appeals to my egalitarian nature. but i find that i actually agree with justice baragwanath, as quoted in paragraph 3.7:

In the recent decision of R v B,53 which again involved a question of pre-trial suppression, Baragwanath J described the presumption of innocence and the adverse consequences of publication of what may be an unjustified charge as being among factors to be weighed in making a decision on suppression. He stated that the presumption of innocence means that if there is significant reason to consider that the defendant may be unfairly prejudiced by a refusal of orders under sections 138 or 140, the onus will pass to the prosecution to show why orders should not be made. He described the process as dynamic; the position may change as the pre-trial processes take place. The principles that apply may differ when the defence is able to present its side – what may be unfair publicity at the first stage may be necessary at the second to permit proper reporting of the trial, and may be fully justified by the verdict that marks the third stage.

i actually think that name suppression, particularly in cases involving celebrities, should happen unless there is a conviction. partly it's because i'm totally opposed to trial by media, and think that the breathless reporting and inordinate focus on the case doesn't serve justice. but there is also the fact that the victim of the crime is often subject to an unfair amount of scrutiny and negative comments, which can amount to a further victimisation. this particularly occurs when the celebrity can afford expensive PR firms, and may have friends/contacts in the media who try to discredit the victim in any way possible. more than that, media or entertainment organisations will be keen to protect their brand and protect their income stream, so will also do their best to discredit the victim.

i do understand the notion of open justice, and justice being seen to be done. however, i think the media scrutiny acts as a deterrent for victims pressing charges.

however, once conviction is secured (or even a discharge without conviction), i think names suppression should only be granted in very restricted circumstances. the "protection of reputation" argument doesn't wash with me, nor the notion that celebrities have more to lose from exposure than other people. i think any person has much to lose in terms of future employment opportunities and the ability to carry on with their lives.

once a conviction has been obtained, the victim is as least protected by the fact of that conviction and the evidence provided in court. there is still likely to be significant attempts of discrediting the victim, but these will have less weight given the jury/judge have believed the victim. the only reasons that sits well with me for name suppression after conviction is if the victim does not want to be identified and/or protection of family members of the accused.

Still on that journey

A little while ago Jadis asked a question over at Kiwiblog, which I thought I'd start to answer:
Are we there yet? Has feminism done a major part of what it intended to do – ensure women can have access to once male dominated areas? Or has the agenda of feminism (good and bad) evolved into something else?
Jadis illustrates her point, that we might be there, by reference to watching a group of women in traditional male roles; driving a fire engine, driving a digger, abseiling down a tree; and with further discussion of the equality of opportunity I think she believes women would now have if we didn't hold ourselves back. (I'm paraphrasing there, Jadis would be most welcome to clarify her thoughts in comments).

I seem to have been spending quite a bit of time in the last week or so having real life conversations with women in their 40s, 50s and 60s about The Death of Feminism. Somehow or other I've ended up talking about the fact we're not living in a post-feminist world, and they've expressed relief that there are still younger* women who realise this, because they still feel very strongly that we're not there yet. They gave some terrible (to me) examples of women taking for granted the gains hard-won by their fore-mothers, some of them not even that long ago. And the inevitable bagging of feminists that seems to be de rigeur in some circles these days. Sounds to me a lot like the "I'm not a feminist but..." sentiments I expressed myself in my late teens.

So here's my list of a few bits and pieces I reckon will signal the beginning of the end of our journey - the Not Far Now of Feminism, if you will:
  • Every parent will know how to change a nappy
  • Images of people in the media aren't altered to conform to some weird idea of perfection
  • Every woman will get a vote, just as every man does
  • Rape will be considered so rare and so shocking that there will be no question of blaming the victim
  • Advertisements would eschew stupid stereotypes and dubious claims to instead focus on honest selling of their products
  • Women are as likely as men to be mayors, nurses, teachers, counsellors, cleaners, aircraft engineers, political bloggers, or even arborists
What's on your list? Where do you think our society will be, when feminism's work is nearly done?



* I'm not really all that young now, so would be particularly interested in comments from those who are!

Wednesday, 18 November 2009

Ministry of Women's Affairs presentation on changing attitudes towards sexual violence

Big thanks to the Roundtable on Violence Against Women's newsletter for bringing this to my attention.
The Ministry of Women’s Affairs invites you to the following presentation:

**CHALLENGING THE MYTHS: CHANGING ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEXUAL VIOLENCE**

The principal researchers who conducted the work streams for the recently completed sexual violence studies - Strong and Safe Communities – Effective Interventions for Adult Victim/Survivors of Sexual Violence - will present a brief overview of the methods used before summarising key findings from the research.

This material will be organised around the ways in which the findings challenge widely held myths about rape/sexual violence, and will be used as a base for outlining some of the important implications arising from this research project.

Presenters:
Dr Venezia Kingi, Crime and Justice Research Centre
Dr Elaine Mossman, Crime and Justice Research Centre
Associate Professor Jan Jordan, Institute of Criminology

When:
Friday 27 November 2009, 9.00-11.00am

Where: Auditorium, Bowen State Building, Bowen Street, Wellington

Please RSVP to: Rachael Ward ward at mwa.govt.nz tel: 04 916 5823 by 20 November 2009.


Periodic extension

This one's been percolating since before the Disarming Cat Bite Debacle of 2009, but I still haven't worked out quite how to put it right, so bear with me.
Should difficult menstruation be a valid, indeed accepted, reason to apply for an extension for an essay, or similar?
Initially this seemed to me to be a bit of a radical, out-there, idea, but within a mere 30 seconds I'd changed my mind. For those women whose periods are accompanied by severe cramps, pain, headaches, discomfort and other un-niceties, why shouldn't they be able to get an extension in the same way as an asthmatic who was struggling with a high pollen count?

I guess part of the issue comes with the necessity to get a medical certificate to back the claim for an extension up? Not sure how many of our readers have assignments that they have to submit by deadlines, usually in the context of study. Whether you are in this boat or paddle a different waka, I'd be interested in your views.

Women working for free from today until the end of the year

The Pay Equity Challenge Coalition that today is the day that women start working for free, until the end of the year, as they are on average paid 12% less than men:
Women subsidise the economy by nearly $4B a year!

NZ women earn at least 12% less (on average hourly earnings) than men. It's as if from 18th November until the end of the year women are working for free.

Nearly 1 million people miss out on nearly $4,000 million in wages every year - because they are women.

How does this happen?
  • Women don't always get equal pay for the same work as their male colleagues. Often they don't even know what male colleagues are earning. Do you?
  • The majority of the workers in lower paid jobs are women.
  • Occupations dominated by women (such as social work) are often underpaid in relation to comparable work in which men dominate
  • Women are often in roles with short career ladders, limiting their opportunities to improve their pay through promotion
  • Existing pay equal pay and opportunities legislation needs to be enforced.
So to this end there's an event on in Welly to mark the day:
1200 Pay equity debt collectors leaving CTU for Midland Park - (dressed up)

1220 Meeting for leafleting in Midland Park

1235 Angela will do a brief welcome; union representative, MPs asked to give brief statement of support

1245 Photos in front of invoice ( you should see it - it is massive )

1255 More leafleting and finally;

1.15 Coffee at Astoria
Sounds fab!

Tuesday, 17 November 2009

Raising your f**king family - still women's work?

Gah this day just keeps getting better and better.

First women are being chided for not being Julia Child, but now we know the reason for our failure in the kitchen is because we work and thus don't have time to carry out our family responsibilities.

Stuff is carrying another wire story in which the head of the girls' school association tells us that young girls need to be taught the 'realities' of trying to have a career and having children and that we can't have 'it all.'

Gah! It's like feminism never happened.

Can we all please get over this assumption that it is only women who must sacrifice their careers because childcare/house work is women's work. Yes biologically dictates that it will be the mother doing the labouring and breastfeed, but that's only one part of looking after your offspring and managing a household. There's the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping and those seemingly never-ending piles of laundry.

And perhaps instead of schooling girls in the 'realities' of parenthood and work maybe, just maybe, we could teach teenage boys that they should not automatically expect women to do all of the child-raising and housework if they want to have children or for that matter a partner at all.* And perhaps we could even, shock horror, teach boys** about the ins and outs of parenting in order to better equip them for this role.

Oh and while I'm on a roll, perhaps we can do something about that wage gap so that a woman's career isn't the one that is seen as more expendable because she earns less.

* But then you'd also have to bust another pop-culture meme that men don't want children and do so to placate us women-folk with our clocks a ticking.
** Yes, yes and girls too.

Wellington Reclaim the Night event coming up soon!

Reclaim the Night is an international event putting the issue of women’s safety from male violence on the agenda for this night and every day. We march to demand our right to be free from the fear or reality of rape, of sexual harassment, of domestic violence, of stalking.
This year the Wellington Reclaim the Night march addresses: “The culture of violence towards women” and is focused around being safe in our city; in our homes, at work, while out exercising or walking, going clubbing or out for a drink with our friends.

When: Friday the 27th of November, 6.00pm

More precisely what & where: Assemble at the front of the Wellington Railway Station for speakers including Labour’s Lynn Pillay on the changes to ACC for sexual violence survivors, and a performance by the Real Hot Bitches (tbc)

Who: All self-defined women and their children

After party: Ivy, Dixon Street from 8pm with performances from… Edwardene Tanaki, Tyree Robertson, Mahinarangi Maika, Rachael Wright, Freya Eng, Palace This! and others…
Sounds awesome, you can find out more at the relevant blog and the Facebook event page. Big ups to the VUWSA Women's Group and allies for organising this!

Should the charge be rape?

From the Herald today, on the misnamed "police sex case":
"He is a police officer, he can arrest, he can check relationships, he can check up on people. They were all lawful powers the police have and use every day, but when they are used for personal gain by a police officer it is corruption," Ms Toohey said.

He was short of money, and once he had leverage to use that power she had no chance.

The woman said she hated giving him sex for free, but when he pulled her over for traffic offences he told her she would get about $1000 worth of tickets and he could get her car towed, she said.
Surely this kind of duress undermines the free giving of consent?

I wonder if the jury will come back today. It will be very difficult I imagine for many people to believe a prostitute over a police man.

Feeding your f**king family - still women's work?

The Suit loves to listen to newstalk ZB during his morning commute. I'm sure part of the reason is to watch my blood pressure steadily rise as I seethe at the stupidity of the rest of the human race.

Today I had to listen to Mike Hosking repeatedly tut-tutting a Reuters article which claimed the average British mother relies on just nine different meals to feed her family.

The study in question comes from a gourmet food company who presumably is using mother-blaming as a new marketing strategy.

But my question is where the hell are the fathers in all of this?

In our house I'm am supposedly 'lucky' because the Suit cooks decent food on a regular basis (cleaning up is another matter). But surely this shouldn't be a matter of luck?

Shouldn't the logical extension of women being able to hold to careers to support their families is that the men might be able to hold a saucepan and cook a meal for their families?

Apparently not.

In the mean time I leave you with Sarah Haskins.

Intimate neglect

Found here.

Monday, 16 November 2009

Regulation for plastic surgery in UK?

From the Herald today:
It is a modern gold-rush founded on human vanity and the search for eternal youth. But today's prospectors are surgeons, not miners, and the lives they risk are not their own but those of their mostly female clients, lured with impossible promises of anatomical perfection.

In an astonishing attack on the booming cosmetic surgery industry, Nigel Mercer, president of the British Association of Aesthetic Plastic Surgeons (Baaps), and himself a practising cosmetic surgeon in Bristol, says it is time to call a halt to the unregulated trade.

Increasing numbers of medical and non-medical practitioners have entered the market over the past decade, drawn by the huge profits. But the casualties of the boom, seduced by the prospect of bigger breasts, tighter stomachs or more lustrous skin, are the patients doomed to disappointment.

"We have reached a stage where public expectation, driven by media hype and, dare one say, professional greed, has brought us to a 'perfect storm' in the cosmetic surgical market," Mr Mercer said.
Click through for the rest of the article.

Mercer points out that the kind of full-on marketing approach taken in appearance medicine in the UK is not allowed in other areas of health, although I'm not sure that's entirely true here, what with the open-slather advertising for prescription medications we allow.

Mind the Brain Dunedin tomorrow

What: Talk by Emily Cooper of Silkbody ("A speakers' forum for parents of young children who want intellectual stimulation beyond the domestic sphere...")

Where: The Crocodile Cafe in the Dunedin Botanic Gardens
When: November 17th, 9am

Find out more at Mind the Brain's facebook group page.

Thursday, 12 November 2009

life skills for sale

i'm a reasonably religious person, and as i've mentioned here before, my religion is an important source of strength and guidance for me. i know this is true for many people, who belong to any number of faiths or belief systems. when times are particularly difficult, people tend to turn to prayer and spiritual guidance as a source of support. it's at these times that they are most vulnerable.

and there are plenty of people out there willing to exploit that state of mind. organisations like this though, seem a little sinister to me. i really don't know anything much about this particular organisation that i stumbled across recently, and i'm sure there are plenty others like it. they may actually provide much-needed support to some people. but my goodness, this one is expensive. very expensive, and it's money that may be coming from people who really can't afford it.

i came across this testimonial, which is admittedly only one person's experience, but it doesn't sound nice:

The first 'Induction' session took place on the Friday night. Here we were asked to sign a 'discipline' sheet. This requested a commitment on what drink and food we consumed during the course, the taking of unprescribed medicines was not allowed and certain behaviours and speech during the training was requested. When questioned about the relevance of these requests the course leaders asked those opposed to stand with a microphone to verbalise their concerns. If they were unable to 'persuade' the individual to sign they stated that they would have to leave the training without refund (as a refund was only available after attending the full programme). So the choice was taken away from people and if there were to be a chance of requesting a refund they HAD to sign the disciplines.

an interesting question for me, is what should you do when you come across a person who has been drawn into something like this? of course i accept that people are responsible for their own actions, and should be free to spend their own money in any way they wish. on the other hand, i don't think it's right that any organisation should be exploiting people who may be particularly vulnerable and in need of support.

i'm not sure what regulations we have around organisations like this. do they have to abide by any "truth-in-advertising" type requirements? which body would you complain to if you felt that you weren't getting your money's worth? or if you felt that someone you knew was being exploited? an organisation claiming to sell you life skills, well how would you measure the success of that?

it seems to me that there is a gap here. after all, most people who sell goods and services have to abide by fair trading laws like the sale of goods act, or are regulated by professional bodies like the medical council. this organisation is also selling a service, and it's consumers should be protected just like all other consumers are.

hate speech

i have to say i'm laughing a little at all the complaints lodged with the human rights commission regarding comments from mr hone harawira. not that i disagree with the complaints - i totally disagree with tarnishing a whole race of people because of the actions of some. if nothing else, it's a stupid move because it pisses off your allies within that group.

it surprises me though, that all of the complainants weren't aware that the commission is unable to act in this case. that's because we don't have laws against hate speech, and the commission is very limited in what it can do. the only time you can take legal action against speech is in the case of incitement to violence, and that comes under the crimes act, not the bill of rights nor the human rights act. and say what you will about mr harawira's words, they weren't a direct incitement to violence. they weren't even the coded messages inciting violence that we're hearing from the likes of mr beck and mr limbaugh these days.

there is also s61 of the human rights act 1993, which provides protection against any publication, broadcast, or speech at public places or meetings which are threatening, abusive or insulting “being matter or words likely to excite hostility against or bring into contempt any group of persons in or who may be coming to New Zealand on the ground of the colour, race, or national origins of that group of persons.” there are a couple of problems with this though, one being that the threshhold for a successful complaint is really high and secondly that it doesn't really cover the internet very well. mr harawira's "speech" was in a private email, although he knew it was going to be publicised.

the closest we've ever come to even considering the laws around hate speech was the select committee inquiry in 2004(ish). that inquiry arose out of the inquiry into the films, videos and publications classifications act, because there were some issues raised that couldn't be dealt with under that act and the MPs on the select committee wanted those issues investigated further.

how do i know this? because i submitted in written and oral form to both inquiries. and i had a spot on eye-to-eye against judith collins (and a couple of other guests) about the hate speech issue, arising directly as a result of my submission. but the select committee that inquired into hate speech never reported back to parliament. so all those submissions are still sitting there somewhere, gathering dust.

there was actually quite a lot of response to the inquiry. there were many people opposed to any legislation or regulation on hate speech, quite a few of them from the right-wing churches. their main concern (though they didn't quite put it that way) was that any such legislation or regulation might hamper their ability to speak out against muslims or homosexuality. they wanted to be free to discriminate in their public speech, and resisted any moves that would stop them.

others objected on the grounds of civil liberties and the freedom of speech provisions in the bill of rights. the supreme court had already ruled that freedom from discrimination did not over-ride freedom of speech (which in effect means that freedom of speech over-rides freedom from discrmination). this group had the stronger argument, in that limitations to freedom of speech had ramifications that could be oppressive.

so, there was a lot of opposition, particularly in the media, to this inquiry and it was quietly sidelined. but i just wonder, how many of the people who have lodged complaints against mr harawira would be the same people who would be opposed to any regulations against hate speech? and if that inquiry were to be opened up again today, would they support it? would they have supported my submission? i just wonder about that, and that's what makes me laugh. because i suspect (and yes, i admit that it is only wild speculation) that some of these complainants want to have discrimination against themselves penalised, but want to also be free to discriminate against others in their own public speech.

there's one point though, that these complainants may be missing. the impact of mr harawira's speech will, in actual fact, have little effect on them other than the emotional distress it causes them. no-one will hurl abuse at them in the streets as a result of that speech. they will not face barriers to employment, nor find it difficult when trying to get a rental house to live in. they won't face fear or restriction in their daily life.

compare this to hate speech against minorities. let me compare it to a direct and personal example, to make it more clear. the danish cartoons depicting mohammad were published by some fairfax newspapers on a friday. in the next 48 hours, i had 3 incidents of strangers shouting abuse at me or making rude gestures. i had no say when it came to those cartoons being published. none of these people bothered to ask me my views on the matter. but i was punished, and became afraid to go out because of resulting public speech by commentators and talkback hosts and callers that denigrated muslims as lacking humour, unable to take criticims, etc etc. that speech affected the public mood, which affected my ability to function.

what mr harawira said was wrong. but it's not the same. it's will never have the same effect as public speech that denigrates a minority group. and a minority group will never have the same ability to speak back in the way that the majority group does.

Wednesday, 11 November 2009

Biting the hand that feeds the cat you steal the food from

Blog absence can be caused by many things; work, travel, family needs, fine weather, illness or injury, etc etc. While work has severely curtailed by blogging time in recent months what actually stopped me typing lately was a bite from a feral cat.

The Feral Cat has a history of beating up our cat. It's huge, hard to see at night what with the shabby black coat, and has little fear of humans. Several years ago it nearly killed our puss, and it comes and goes randomly, usually disappearing for several weeks or even months in between maimings.

About six weeks ago it got our kitty big time, requiring shaving of part of her head, anti-biotics, $200 in vet fees, and general extra tender love and care for the poor thing. A week after that I heard her calling out for help one night, yowling and howling, so out I went to rescue her. Coming out the front door I could see her cowering at the bottom of the stairs, making an awful noise. The FC was further up the stairs, between me and my beloved, and it wasn't going anywhere except closer and closer to our cat, who was still in a weakened state from their earlier altercation. My only choice appeared to be to pick up the FC to save our kit.

I'd had to do this once before in a similar situation, and the FC hadn't struggled. I'd thrown it over the fence on to the property next door (not residential) and it had stared disdainfully back before sauntering slowly off, making it quite clear that it was going that way anyway and I had had little impact on its original plans. So I wasn't too worried about plucking it from the stairs again.

Big mistake. It turned, sank its fangs into the back of my hand and when I swore, loudly, and dropped it, it just hissed at me and stood where it landed. Hand bleeding and immobile I shooed it away (the FC merely repeated its usual slow saunter to behind the rubbish bins) and then somehow I managed to drag our cat inside, feeling very sorry for myself.

It didn't really seem that bad, and my partner thought it was just another minor bite, which I'd had from our kitty in the past with little trouble. Washed it, put antiseptic manuka honey stuff on it, and repeated all this in the morning, headed off to work.

By lunchtime almost the whole back of my hand was swollen and red. Workmates were discussing blood poisoning and amputation. One volunteered to drive me to a doctor, which I took up. I ended up with massive doses of antibiotics, a bandage worthy of a much bigger wound around my hand and wrist, and a sling. I went back to work for a while but went green and had to take a cab home. Couldn't even sign the credit card receipt.

Three days later I was able to go back to work properly, lower the antibiotic dose and stop making daily doctor trips for check-ups. In the interim my hand had been debrided twice. If you don't know what that means and you want to gross yourself out then google it. If not then all you need to know is that it is really quite painful, but effective.

It's several weeks later now and still it hasn't fully healed. The two bite marks are raised, and oscillate between pink and purple. They hurt sometimes when I put pressure on my hand. But I can type freely, and bath Wriggly, which is a great relief.

One thing that bugged me about this was my own discounting of my concern that it was a real problem right from the start. I was so worried about being a stereotypically hypochondriac woman that I didn't take it seriously, and still I justify it by telling people that the first nurse I saw told me the other cat bite victim she'd seen that day had to go to Middlemore Hospital. Later on in the process a doctor told me that hands are particularly worrisome places to have cat bites, as the proximity to so many complex membranes means if infection gets out of hand then surgery is the only option.

So the lessons I've learnt are twofold:
  1. Take a broom to fend off the FC with.
  2. Don't dismiss my instincts about my health to avoid being seen as a delicate fragile flower of womanhood.
Any suggestions on disposing humanely of the FC, who has returned to our hood this week, most welcome!

Quickie: Another rugby player using his fists off the field

Yet another sportsman in a domestic violence incident, seeking a discharge without conviction on the grounds that the penalty would outweigh the crime:
In a video interview played to the court, Perez admitted he had got angry because he believed Ms Brooks had lied to him about a second pair of shoes she had when he picked her up from work at Centre City on May 31.

They had fought when she said they were an old pair.

"I slapped her on the nose or lip. She was buying heaps and heaps of shoes. I don't know why she wants so many shoes and boots. I said `why do you keep lying to me?"'

Judge Murfitt found the two assaults and the intentional damage proven but reduced the assault charges to male assaults female.

He said he believed Ms Brook's version of the assaults.

But the judge did not find that Perez' had intended to injure Ms Brooks. "I think it likely he was intending to subdue her and impose dominant control over her."
Warning: TRIGGERING This is from the middle of it, click through for the whole thing.

The report certainly sounds like Perez has some serious issues with control, anger and violence. I imagine that would surely be more detrimental to his playing career than any conviction. To be a good rugby player you need to be able to focus, control your emotions and your body, and think tactically. I hope he gets the assistance he needs to sort this out, but going for a discharge without conviction for what are really quite serious charges suggest that he's possibly not on the path to redemption yet.


PS I'm going to start referring to these as Quickies rather than Quick Hits. I feel really icky putting Quick Hit when these posts seem to so often be about violence.

Tuesday, 10 November 2009

Stinky stinky stinky

Melissa at Shakesville is one of many US feminist bloggers writing about the fish hooks for women in the Really Big Deal Healthcare Reform going on in Obamaland at the moment. She puts it like this:
Five years ago, progressive feminists were cast as hysterics for shouting that conceding ground on choice, that not requiring a strong pro-choice position among the party's elected ranks (no less the party's leadership), would eventually lead to compromises that even classic Democrats could not abide. And here we are.

And all I can do is watch in horror as the party tears itself in half because it prioritized winning over undiluted support for equality.
Depressing it certainly is. Because included in the package is what's being called the Stupak Amendment:
The amendment will prohibit federal funds for abortion services in the public option. It also prohibits individuals who receive affordability credits from purchasing a plan that provides elective abortions. However, it allows individuals, both who receive affordability credits and who do not, to separately purchase with their own funds plans that cover elective abortions. It also clarifies that private plans may still offer elective abortions.
Ann at Feministing points out that this fatally compromises the Great Victory of so-called comprehensive health care in the USA for the first time in history:
This isn't just about how the money is allocated or what workarounds exist. This has me so incredibly infuriated because it further segregates abortion as something different, off the menu of regular health care. It is a huge backward step in the battle to convey -- not just politically, but to women in their everyday lives -- that reproductive health care is normal and necessary, and must be there if (or, more accurately, when) you need it.
How can it be truly comprehensive health care if it so severely restricts women's choices about their own bodies? NOW sums up the impact succintly.

Feels like one step forward and two steps backwards tonight.

Quick hit: Sharples launches new kuia visiting programme

From the Herald today:
The Maori Affairs Minister, Pita Sharples, will today begin a new programme whose success he hopes will be underpinned by what he calls "the nanny principle".

Under Oranga Whanau, groups of three kuia will visit pregnant Maori women to identify welfare issues.

Speaking yesterday at a violence and abuse research symposium, Dr Sharples said the $1 million programme would roll out in Auckland, Northland, Rotorua and Hutt Valley.

Under the scheme, the three "nannies" will work in a team visiting mothers in their regions. Dr Sharples said it followed a smaller trial that iwi in Ngati Kahungunu undertook this year.

The "nanny principle" puts into practice the cultural way older people relate to younger people in the same non-threatening way that Maori wardens work.

"It works really well. One puts the kettle on, one natters about the whakapapa, the other one cuts the cake," the minister said.

"It is a catch-all - it's an opportunity to help people before issues become issues."
Click through for the rest.

I'd be interested if any readers know how this is going to differ from the work that Maori providers for Well Child programmes already work, although I guess the key difference will be that they will be visiting before the baby arrives??

Danger Pregnant Woman alert 3!

Another woman has essentially been deported for the crime of being pregnant.

Welcome to New Zealand we're quite happy to have you study or visit but just don't get yourself pregnant.

And in answer to the usual cries, yes she has money to cover her health care and no her child won't qualify for citizenship.


Part one and Part two of a series.

Grab Bag

Thanks very much to readers for sending these in, sorry it sometimes takes me ages to get to putting them up, but I do definitely appreciate them.

Skirting the issue at BNZ
- the bank is restricting staff uniform choices based on their size (big thanks to Rebecca)

On being 'old' and pregnant - Dita de Boni blogs on infertility, aging and motherhood.

CEOs uncovered - Tessa lovingly emailed this one through - it claims NZ CEOs are now a diverse bunch, despite the fact that they are almost all still male...

The Beauty of Artificial Virginity
- sick cravings for wedding night blood ahoy. (Cheers to captiver)

Monday, 9 November 2009

Note to Trevor Mallard

Can you please stop calling (National MP) Chris Finlayson Tinkerbell?

It is deeply uncool, and manages to be homophobic and misogynistic in one handy package. I'm sure you don't really want to be a prejudiced idiot, so perhaps if you stopped acting like one that would be a good start.

That is all.

Fronting up

Today's cartoon from the Herald is rather pointed. And sadly I cannot insert it in this blog post for reasons unknown.

A friend pointed out to me on the weekend that by going for permanent name suppression this person has effectively undermined all the other things that they did right here (pleading guilty, apologising, making reparations to the victim). If he had fronted up, publicly, he could have actually done a lot of good. And I seriously doubt that his livelihood would have been destroyed without name suppression. After all he's an entertainer not a priest, right?

Please do respect the name suppression order in comments however as I'd hate to have to delete comments.

There has been some really worrying stuff in comments elsewhere about "what did she expect being out at 2am and dressing up like a 21 year old" - we still have a long way to go in this country.

Guest post: Mixed bag from latest Fergusson et al article

Thanks very much to reader Captiver for permission to post her commentary on the latest Fergusson article on abortion that was released in the last couple of weeks.

The latest article from Fergusson et al on abortion and mental health, called “Reactions to abortion and subsequent mental health”, appears in this month’s (November) British Journal of Psychiatry, and though it focuses on negative outcomes for women, as its predecessor articles have also tended to do, the piece actually contains some positive news for supporters of a woman’s right to choose.

BACKGROUND

Before looking at the content of this new effort, a bit of background about the Fergusson studies. (Thanks to ALRANZ Newsletter for this info.) This is the fourth article on the 1977 cohort of women from Christchurch, New Zealand. The first paper in 2006 was entitled “Abortion in young women and subsequent mental health” and was published in the Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry. It reported a possible harmful association between abortion and mental health but also said more research was needed.

The second paper in 2007 was entitled “Abortion among young women and subsequent life outcomes” and was published in the journal Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health. Maybe because this reported some positive outcomes it received less publicity. Women having abortions had advantages in terms of educational and economic outcomes.

In 2008 Fergusson wrote and editorial entitled “Abortion and mental health” published in the Psychiatric Bulletin calling for more and better research.

A third paper on the cohort in 2008 entitled “Abortion and mental health disorders: evidence from a 30-year longitudinal study” was published in the British Journal of Psychiatry. A finding was that abortion could account for only 1.5 to 5.5 per cent of the overall rate of mental disorders.

In the new paper the time line is extended to include interviews at age 30 years. Unsurprisingly, it concludes that abortion was associated with both positive and negative reactions, but goes on to reach other conclusions that are arguably not justified by the data.

POSITIVE FACTORS

1. Definitely in the positive column, the latest Fergusson et al report concludes that 90% of women who had abortions were satisfied that they had made the right decision and only 2% regretted the decision, refuting the claim by anti-abortion advocates that large numbers of women have regrets. The next time Fergusson et al is bandied about by opponents of women’s rights, this is an important figure to throw back.

2. The report doesn’t actually find a link between abortion and mental health problems as such, but between “distress about abortion” and mental health problems. Put another way, women who didn’t report “distress” about their abortion (and these reports were gathered retrospectively when the women were 30) “do not show increased risk of mental health problems.”

This raises questions about what this “distress” is? Could it relate to abortion being demonized, for instance? Indeed it could. The authors admit they don’t know: “The present data are unclear as to whether negative reactions to abortion were more common among participants who were members of communities or groups in which an unwanted pregnancy or abortion may have been viewed most negatively.” They list other limitations, including that their assessment of “abortion-related distress was based on retrospective reports obtained at age 30. Such reports may be subject to errors of reminiscence and possible recall bias.” !

The difference between the “distressed” women (with alleged subsequent mental health problems) and the women who weren’t distressed about their abortions could just as easily lead to the conclusion that more effort should be made to end the stigma surrounding abortion or that better counseling be offered women, as it could to the conclusion that abortion on grounds of mental health are questionable. Naturally, it was on this “distressed” group that media headlines were focused.

It’s also worth recalling some of the commentary with the previous Fergusson paper (why wasn’t there any this time?) One commenter made a point that relates to the purported link between “distress surrounding abortion” and negative mental health outcomes: “The modest increase in risk of mild problems might be accounted for by ‘a minority of women [for whom] abortion is a highly stressful life event which evokes distress, guilt and other negative feelings that may last for many years.’ Unfortunately, they did not identify who this minority of women might be. Research suggests that women with multiple pregnancy loss and those who have a late termination for foetal abnormality face an increased risk of mental health problems.” Again, we need to know about this “distress”.

MISSING DATA:

The report’s biggest problem, we believe, is fudging the crucial distinction between women with unwanted pregnancies who carry them to term because they choose to do so (i.e. abortion is available) and women who carry them to term because they want but cannot obtain an abortion.

Basically, as far as one can tell there is no data from the latter group in the study (it would be ethically challenging to try to include such a group, to say the least). All we learn of the unwanted pregnancies carried to term is this: “66 live births (to 52 women) following an unwanted/adverse reaction to the pregnancy”.

Yet despite what seems on its face a glaring hole, the authors conclude that “unwanted pregnancy that came to term was not associated with significant increases in mental health problems”, and from this, they go on to the question the legality of abortions performed on mental health grounds (i.e. the continuing with an unwanted pregnancy will harm the woman’s mental health). This is what they say:

“There is no evidence in this research that would suggest that unwanted pregnancies that come to term were associated with increased risks of mental health problems or that abortion mitigated the risks of mental health problems in women having unwanted pregnancy.”

Clearly, as noted, the women in their study with “unwanted/adverse reaction to” pregnancies who carried them to term had the option of choosing abortion. They did not so choose. It is very hard to see how this can be used to justify the much broader claim that being forced to carry a pregnancy to term has no mental health impact. The authors seem to be both fudging and overreaching here.

That said, supporters of a woman’s right to choose oppose laws that mandate grounds like mental health be met before a woman can have an abortion. Generally, we find ourselves defending those grounds where they are the only way women can gain access to abortion. But it is indeed a wildly unsatisfactory situation, so when studies like Fergusson’s are used to attack the mental health ground, it’s important to point out that, actually, we don’t think forcing women to jump through the many hoops that the “grounds” throw up is so great either, and what all this fighting over covariant factors and models points to is the need for women to simply have the right to choose. Period. Grounds are there as cover for politicians, they are not there for women.

FAILED DEFENSE?

In their paper, Fergusson et al use this “fudging” to defend themselves against recent U.S. studies that have criticized their earlier work. Particularly, they say, that there are two questions,

(1) “The first question focuses on whether unwanted pregnancy terminated by abortion is an adverse life event that leads to increased risks of mental health problems in women exposed to that event.” And (2) “The second causal question concerns the issue of whether any adverse consequences of unwanted pregnancy
terminated by abortion are greater or lesser than the adverse consequences of unwanted pregnancy coming to term.”

They say the American studies “committed the error of dismissing large amounts
of evidence that was relevant to answering the first question on the grounds that these data failed to address the second question.”

OK, perhaps the first question can and should be taken on its face. But unless the authors of the study themselves satisfactorily answer the second question, they surely cannot not draw conclusions about laws that use the mental health ground to justify abortions. And based on the women in their study, they cannot satisfactorily answer the second question. Thus, some of the more political conclusions the authors draw here arguably overreach their own data. I also don’t believe their defense adequately answers the U.S. critics.

WHY DOES THIS MATTER?

Aside from the obvious propagandistic use to which these endless studies are being put by those opposed to women’s reproductive rights, (we won’t add links here, but if you want to see what they’re saying, visit Family Life International blog at http://familylifenz(dot)wordpress.com/) (Copy this address into your browser and replace (dot) with an actual dot.) Fergusson seems quite interested in the official policy/statements of the Royal College of Psychiatrists. Writing in the Psychiatric Bulletin in 2008 he noted that:

“Recently, the Royal College of Psychiatrists (2008) issued a statement (Appendix) on the relationship between induced abortion and women’s mental health that reached the following conclusions:
‘The specific issue of whether or not induced abortion has harmful effects on women’s mental health remains to be fully resolved. The current research evidence base is inconclusive - some studies indicate no evidence of harm while other studies identify a range of mental disorders following abortion.’

This careful and hedged position contrasts starkly with the confident statement made by the Royal College of Psychiatrists in 1994 (Royal College of Psychiatrists, 1994):
‘The Royal College of Psychiatrists finds the risks to psychological health from termination of pregnancy in the first trimester much less than the risks associated with proceeding with a pregnancy that is clearly harming the mother’s mental health. There is no evidence in such cases of major psychiatric risk or long-lasting psychological distress.’”

Perhaps this is part of a campaign to have the College adopt as its official position a link between abortion and mental ill-health, we don’t know. It is hoped that those with expertise in this kind of statistical analysis will follow up the latest Fergusson et al paper with a rigorous critique that can be submitted to the Journal.