tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post4763657961293830838..comments2023-10-07T22:37:49.244+13:00Comments on The Hand Mirror: What to expect.... when you weren't expectingkatyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15742280289613450293noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-43357177390754923892009-09-21T09:44:52.707+12:002009-09-21T09:44:52.707+12:00I'm so sorry for your loss, that letter is so ...I'm so sorry for your loss, that letter is so beautiful and sad. I admire your strength at taking on the placard guy, and saying what had to be said.<br /><br />Hope you get well soon, thinking of you, kia kaha.Litanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-20178093618155049582009-08-25T11:53:29.510+12:002009-08-25T11:53:29.510+12:00I know how you feel, and I know how much it sucks....I know how you feel, and I know how much it sucks. I'm really sorry.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03896817139131485525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-40688367096399972662009-08-25T08:10:35.668+12:002009-08-25T08:10:35.668+12:00I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful t...I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute, though. *hugs*Leia Organahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05341131220110311912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-49094235342827637912009-08-24T18:35:08.246+12:002009-08-24T18:35:08.246+12:00I'm so sorry to read this, but very thankful y...I'm so sorry to read this, but very thankful you shared it with us - so eloquent. I hope there's a lot of comfort for you on your return to NZ.Alisonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-83152910994693612562009-08-24T12:33:06.468+12:002009-08-24T12:33:06.468+12:00I'm so sorry for your loss.I'm so sorry for your loss.Boganettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07253374355820020132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-61683905566738357932009-08-24T11:26:30.262+12:002009-08-24T11:26:30.262+12:00Ah shit. I don't DO crying. Expaaaaaaat!
Sorr...Ah shit. I don't DO crying. Expaaaaaaat!<br /><br />Sorry. Insensitive. This is about you, not me.<br /><br />Mucho love to ya xoxoxoxoxoxoxoNikki Elisabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11601782588373904490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-36078832198996137282009-08-24T09:48:40.585+12:002009-08-24T09:48:40.585+12:00Thank you for sharing your story, especially when ...Thank you for sharing your story, especially when it must be hurting so much for you at the moment. I hope you get home soon and can find some comfort - take care of yourself *hugs*octopusgrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09322647657225176874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-450953303842231402009-08-24T09:26:52.675+12:002009-08-24T09:26:52.675+12:00i'm so sorry for your loss and hoping good thi...i'm so sorry for your loss and hoping good things happen for you soon (including the comfort of being with your loved ones). i know what it's like to cry with news of pregnancy, not happy tears either. but to then move on to the experience you've had must be especially difficult. take care.stargazerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430290445762377335noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-8557113121062743122009-08-24T08:38:38.142+12:002009-08-24T08:38:38.142+12:00Thanks so much for sharing this t e-e. I hope you...Thanks so much for sharing this t e-e. I hope your story has the happy ending mine had. Best wishes for getting those hugs soonest.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08977150346842277994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-43840525939570477432009-08-23T23:01:44.137+12:002009-08-23T23:01:44.137+12:00Sending *hugs* and healing thoughts your way.Sending *hugs* and healing thoughts your way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-66243409808364428542009-08-23T22:54:56.385+12:002009-08-23T22:54:56.385+12:00Some people say it's "only" a miscar...Some people say it's "only" a miscarriage. But there's nothing "only" about the pain of losing a baby and the hopes and dreams you had for her/his future - even though you might not have been aware of them until you lost them.<br /><br />May you and the baby's father have the love which will heal the grief.homepaddockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08596903968235369282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-43279484417677923702009-08-23T19:58:59.540+12:002009-08-23T19:58:59.540+12:00That's the sweetest and saddest thing I've...That's the sweetest and saddest thing I've ever read on a blog. <br /><br />I'm so very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.<br />Take care, ex-expat.Philnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-41448619294000381082009-08-23T19:43:42.524+12:002009-08-23T19:43:42.524+12:00I dont know what to say... you wrote this so beaut...I dont know what to say... you wrote this so beautifully and my thoughts are with you so much at the moment, losing a baby no matter whether wanted or not is horrid and especially hard to deal with. If you need anything just give us a yell... We had a loss earlier this year and it was one of the hardest things I have ever dealt with.<br /><br />love DAzlemedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09817866704889651040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-52043879300137852632009-08-23T19:01:05.135+12:002009-08-23T19:01:05.135+12:00I'm really sorry for your loss.
I miscarrie...I'm really sorry for your loss. <br /><br />I miscarried at ten weeks about a month ago, and your last paragraph in particular resonated very much with my experience:<br /><br /><i>I also know that even though this pregnancy ended in disaster, at least I have no trouble with the getting pregnant part of the procreation process. Someday hopefully not long from now, I'll be holding a new child in my arms and the pieces of my heart will be put back together again. Except for that one piece you'll always have.</i><br /><br />Not a baby, but this baby; and then not this baby. We are the haves and have-nots, all in one. Take care.Megan Claytonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03584562106579704547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-86811278358902276342009-08-23T18:49:42.911+12:002009-08-23T18:49:42.911+12:00Oh no. I'm so sorry. Are you anywhere near m...Oh no. I'm so sorry. Are you anywhere near me? I could come and get you and look after you for the night before you head home tomorrow.<br /><br />Lots and lots of tears running down my face...Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14182573274494086468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-251778228833793232009-08-23T17:36:49.524+12:002009-08-23T17:36:49.524+12:00*hug* Thankyou (sniff)*hug* Thankyou (sniff)Amnionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10360242879866540776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8770341086445997547.post-79112776299521688362009-08-23T17:34:02.580+12:002009-08-23T17:34:02.580+12:00That's really beautifully written. I hope your...That's really beautifully written. I hope your homecoming brings you strength.Catnoreply@blogger.com