The Hand Mirror

Cross posted from my home blog. I started to write a piece on what sends out warning signs for “rapey” behaviour, and before I got too f...

I believe Dylan Farrow. Almost every time I am going to believe the victim rather than accused, when it comes to matters of rape, sexual a...

Content warning:  This is about rape and the injustice of it, and stupid stupid rape culture that means many keep asking the wrong questions...

Thanks to Maus for writing and submitting this. Readers may also be interested in an alternative set up just last night:"NZ Misogynist...

There are many theories about what attracts one person to someone else.  Most seem like absolute nonsense to me, not only because those in...

I wrote this a while back but didn't get around to posting it.  Seems like a good way to start the year.  Happy new year everyone, and ...

Content warning:  Rants related to rape, victim blaming, rape apologists, and ridiculous sex education that helps no one, all contained with...

Trigger warnings for rape, substance abuse and addiction, general enragingness.  Also excessive use of CAPS LOCK. I heard a little bit abo...

Thanks to Emma at The Lady Garden for alerting me to a true piece of bile from Britain's own kinda what-Michael-Laws-would-write-like-...

I want to live in a world without sexual violence, and I believe that is possible, because I believe the causes of sexual violence are thing...

Broadly speaking, feminists who see pornography as a problem tend to come from sexual and domestic violence activist backgrounds. They poi...

Let’s start the week with consent. Good phrase that I blogged some time back about “Yes Means Yes” , an American book about why active...