Feminists were pretty pleased when Facebook bowed to user – well,
OK, advertiser – pressure last month and promised it would do more to keep
violent and misogynistic ads off its pages. According to The New York Times,
activists sent more than 5,000 emails to FB’s advertisers and sparked more than
60,000 Tweets. (Or “posts on Twitter” as the NYT calls them). Of course, it’s
early days and we’ll have to see what action is taken and how effective it will
be.
Now, with that campaign checked off, I have a suggestion for another
one. This one takes aim at something possibly just as pernicious, but
definitely way more insidious.
Those of you FB users out who are either “FB-Female” or “FB-Male” will almost certainly have noticed it. (NB. I’m treating FB genders as just that, FB genders, not real-world genders; and, yes, FB only offers the binary, but wait up, I'll get to that -- and how to get around it -- at the end.) What I'm talking about are those
targeted ads that, once you start paying attention, reinforce some of the most
noxious stereotypes around.
This all started back in May, when one add in particularly really started to bug me.
I bitched about it on FB, of course, and was advised to instal an ad blocker, which I did. But that only blocks (most not all) ads in your News Feed,
and does nothing about the sponsored ads down the right-panel. Still, I didn’t mind those so
much; they’re easier to avert the eyes from and occasionally even slightly relevant. Skinny Spotlight Woman, on the other hand, was
always there, front, centre and right at the very top, her torso looking suspiciously like it's about to spawn an alien. Is it supposed to be a rib? (And no, I never ever click, so I did not bring this on myself!)
After Skinny Spotlight Woman disappeared from my Feed, though, I started to pay more attention to the right-hand panel. Yes, there she was again. Just smaller this time. As were myriad other ads telling me what I could do to make myself thinner, sexier, leaner, better dressed. I started tracking them by taking screen shots, and one day, it hit me: wow targeted stereotyping is really quite nasty and insidious. Out in the real world,
we might be doing all we can to challenge all those restrictive -isms, we might be turning our eyes from the celebrity diet gossip mag covers at the checkout stand (to the candy), but on FB and elsewhere, the tide is pushing relentlessly in the other direction.
I got to
wondering what kind of crap the “male” version of me might be told to be, to
buy, to look like, to aspire to; what kind of things "he" would be gently advised should inspire self-loathing? And I decided it might be interesting to find out. There are, I know, myriad other things that factor into
what kind of person FB’s ads think I am and should be: age, education, location, other
stuff I’ve "liked", crap my friends "like" (you know who you are), relationship status and so on. The list is endless and endlessly spooky, and the people who keep warning us about cyber-Big Brother know way more about it than I do. But just so you know: for the purposes of
my research, I’m in my early 30s and live in the Bay of Plenty and obviously tend politically feminist/progressive. (Because FB’s terms and conditions state that “you will not provide any false personal
information on Facebook”, I’ll neither confirm nor deny any of this, particularly the age part, but I'll just say this: “you are only as
old as you feel”. When I signed up, I only gave FB the info I had to give it, so my profile is free of everything that's not mandatory, like "religion", "political views", education, and so on. )
Bottom line, nothing changed for the purposes of this experiment but my "FB gender". (Oh, and I did remove the ad blocker). So, if you're interested, here are the illustrated results of my research, followed at the end by a conclusion with some recommendations.